What Does It Mean to Grow Old Alone?
On February 1st this year, my 78-year-old uncle suffered a severe seizure. Although he’s recovered physically, he hasn’t regained his former mental acuity. Following a hospital stay and stints at a...
View ArticleLearning How to Trust
Sometimes you barricade yourself so securely into a safe space that you forget how to take the walls down again. Sometimes you close yourself up so tightly against being hurt that you forget how to...
View Article“I’m Queer”: Grappling with Orthodoxy as an Asexual Muslim Woman
Recalcitrant. Disobedient. Deserving punishment. These words filled my mind one night in March 2014 as I bowed, and then dropped to the floor to prostrate before Allah. Prayer before bed is usually my...
View ArticleA Love-Hate Relationship (Or Two)
The first time I encountered J, she was tweeting that if President Obama was a secret Muslim, it showed in how he was a good husband and father. J wasn’t Muslim herself, but her father had converted to...
View ArticleFor my parents, on their 45th anniversary
They met on a cruise of the South Pacific and immediately hit it off. Back at home in the U.S., they dated and found themselves all the more drawn to each other. In an era when most people their age...
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